Friday, April 10, 2015

Amazing!!

There is a saying, "Everything happens for a reason." 

I believe that Madeleine Kate Beacham happened in this world to remind us of the true meanings of kindness and love.  And last night, I couldn't help myself, but to smile as I watched my beautiful daughter sing her heart out to her talent choice, "Welcome to New York" by Taylor Swift. 

When we got home last night, she asked me, "Mom, am I still Miss Amazing?"  I told her she is and will always be Miss Amazing. I cannot help but sob when I think of the ways that my Maddie has defied so many odds in her short little life--and yet she remains so happy and so authentically kind and full of love.  It has been an exhausting 16 years to navigate Maddie's health concerns.  But the flip side of having Maddie in my life is that I have the gift, the joy, the grace of continually being in the presence of a being who is pure and will always possess a purity that most of us merely try to emulate, but fall short of due to our humanity.

I am so grateful to be able to associate with people like Rebecca Ford, and her amazing entourage--volunteers, student escorts and so many more that make Tooele's Mr. & Miss Amazing Pageant happen every year now for five years!! 

If you missed the pageant last night, you missed stories of unbelievable triumph over life threatening health issues; and you sure did miss multiple, truly heart melting moments and pee your pants laughter—There simply was not a dull moment because these contestants are FUNNY and REAL and they are each AMAZING—as are the mommas, dads and other caregivers who continue to care for and love them!! 

At the end of the evening, joyful tears filled my eyes as I watched how my sweet Maddie genuinely wanted to hug every contestant she crowned and handed a staff to.  She has so much love!  She handed over her throne gracefully as she carefully crowned the new Miss Amazing 2015, Amber Bailey.  Maddie's Mr. Amazing 2014, Joshua Curtis, whose incredible talent was playing the bass crowned Travis Graves as this years' Mr. Amazing. For their talents, Amber did a dance and Travis sang.  Congratulations Amber and Travis!!!


This pageant is truly one of the beautiful, heart-melting, inspiring and amazing experiences in my life.  I am grateful to witness the simplicity and unpretentiousness of such amazing souls who are in it.  I wish to cheer on and thank the stewards of these beautiful souls--the mommas, dads, and caregivers who choose to protect, care for, advocate for, and see to the safe, healthy, happy passage these amazing souls deserve.  It is not a job for the faint of heart.  It is a job I feel inspired to write about.


Here are a few pics from last night. Enjoy….
Mr. & Miss Amazing 2014:
Joshua Curtis and
Madeleine Kate Beacham



Maddie singing "Welcome To New York"
by Taylor Swift




Mr & Miss Amazing 2014 & 2015



Mr. & Miss Amazing 2015:
Travis Graves & Amber Bailey

Friday, April 11, 2014

Isn't She Lovely?!


(click link above to see Fox TV news report.)

Truth be told, she's always been amazing.  Tonight though, at 14, she was particularly lovely and shined like no star you've ever seen before.  I couldn't be more proud of this little girl.  I am humbled by what an incredibly loving, forgiving, and tender little being she is.  She is and will always be my little Maddie K.   Tonight, however, I smiled (beamed actually), giggled, and wept at how she emerged with the wonderful beauty of a radiant young woman.

As the evening commenced, she rode in as "Jessie" from Toy Story, as each of the contestants were to dress up for the 'Famous Wear' competition.  Her on-stage question was, "If you had one million dollars, what would you buy and why?"  Her answer was purely, "I'd buy 'Frozen'."  She loves Olaf and Elsa and anything  "Frozen."   

For her talent, she performed as the Little Mermaid, Ariel, singing "Part Of Your World." And  rather than just lip syncing or singing along with the track, Maddie stood out by singing on her own, pitch perfectly, may I add!! (Yes, I am a puffed up proud little mama!)

For evening wear, Maddie donned a soft pink evening gown, white satin gauntlets, a pink organza shawl, pink sapphire and rhinestone earrings and necklace, and completed her ensemble with a pink flower in her light brown hair.  She was elegant!  My little girl was somehow growing into a young lady.  When did this happen??

Yet my heart felt an interesting twinge of aching confusion, as I watched her little feet peek out from underneath her bell-bottomed skirt.  She wore bright patent pink slip-ons and little white anklets with lacey trim--Not the heels of a woman, but little shoes of a little girl, still.  It was a moment of of recognition about a truth for Maddie--while part of her was evidently growing into a young woman, part of her will remain always as a child.   It was a bittersweet moment for me.

At intermission, Fox TV came to do a news story on the fourth annual "Mr. and Miss Amazing Pageant" created and produced by Mrs. Ford, Tooele High School's special education teacher, who happens to be amazing in her own right!  It was so delightful to watch my animated Maddie smile and talk so easily with the reporter.

As they began to announce the winners, and each contestant received an award, I watched my Maddie happily clap and cheer on each one.  She truly personifies kindness.  My heart raced and thumped harder as finally one contestant was yet to be named--my very own Madeleine Kate Beacham.  I screamed and squealed with exhilarating delight as Mrs. Ford announced her Miss Amazing 2014.   But what was even more breathtaking about that moment is the fact that my wonderful little girl didn't even realize she had received the accolade.  Her escort, Danny Anderson, had to lean down to her and tell her she won and to go let them crown her.  It was pure.  I felt joy.  I felt so happy for my daughter--because of my daughter.  This was her moment. And it was her victory!

Afterwards, Maddie was swarmed with friends and all sorts of adoring fans--each congratulating her.  She just beamed!  I stood in the background, watching her and just let it all soak in.  I adored her and all the love that surrounded her.  It was magical!

When it was time to finally leave, I helped her into our car.  I asked her, "Well Queenie, what would you like to do to celebrate?"  Simply, her answer was, "Can we go to McDonalds for a Happy Meal?"  I laughed and said yes.  As we drove, I could tell she was tired.  I asked her if she wanted to get it to go.  She said yes.

So, at home, Miss Amazing celebrated in her dress and jewels with a cheesebuger, french fries and a root beer.  As she dipped fries in her fry sauce, my sleepy girl yawned.  Bedtime was on the horizon.  Oh, what a night!  Oh what a simply amazing night!
   










































Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Caveats

Did your mom ever tell you, "Never assume, Dear."  We all know what assuming gets us, right?  This post is a slight deviation from my normal posts, as it is a newspaper article demonstrating the admonition, "Buyer Beware!"  In my life I hope that I will be remembered as one who has integrity and conducts herself with honor in all matters with myself and others.  Hopefully this article will remind you to do your due diligence in every endeavor you pursue and to seek out those individuals, businesses, and institutions that will be trustworthy of guiding you in your process.  After all, as your mom may have also told you (and as some parties in this article demonstrate), "There are wolves in sheep's clothing...."



Meth house auction provides cautionary tale - Tooele home auctioned although seller had been alerted to possible contamination

by Tim Gillie
STAFF WRITER

Foreclosures and short sales have brought home prices down, creating an attractive market for investors hoping to improve a property and flip it later. However, as the case of one Tooele home offered at auction last month illustrates, the admonition “buyer beware” applies doubly these days.

Williams and Williams Worldwide Real Estate Auction, an online real estate auction company based in Tulsa, Oklahoma, went ahead with an auction of a Tooele home last month despite receiving evidence of possible methamphetamine contamination at the property.  Tooele resident Marnie Beacham, along with her brother and father, make a business out of purchasing homes and either flipping them for profit or using them as rentals.  In January, Beacham found a small, bank-owned house listed at williamsauction.com that was located 880 South in Tooele.  Once Beacham decided she was interested in the property, she began doing her due diligence.  “As a routine matter, we have arbitrarily decided to test any property selling for below $100,000 for meth contamination” said Beacham, who also went door-to-door asking neighbors about the property and its former occupants. One neighbor reported suspicious activity including unfamiliar cars coming and going from the home at all hours.

Beachamcollected swab samples from the house and delivered them to ALS Environmental, a Salt Lake City environmental lab that routinely performs meth tests for state-certified decontamination specialists. The test came back positive for meth at 15 micrograms per 100 square centimeters, compared to a threshold of 0.10 micrograms per 100 square centimeters established in state code and county health regulations.

Beacham shared the results with a customer service representative at Williams and Williams and was surprised at the response she got back from their legal department.

Denise Richards, a paralegal with Williams and Williams, sent an email to Beacham explaining that after Richards had contacted the local sheriff and searched a national database, no evidence was found of methamphetamine activity at the address listed for the property.  Richards also said the test Beacham had done could not be relied on because of confusion about the address and the inability to verify the method or areas of the sample collection.

“While we agree that the confirmed presence of methamphetamine would be significant,” wrote Richards. “We do not believe the evidence we have suggests such presence and we cannot postpone the auction based on speculation.”

Beacham remained worried that a young family could move in and their children would be exposed to the contamination.  After the auction was completed, she contacted the high bidder, Jan and Marv Schaffer, of Erda.  “We looked at the test results and it was obvious that the property was very contaminated,” said Marv Schaffer. “I called Williams and Williams and they were very gracious and without any problem they allowed us to withdraw our bid.”

The house currently is not listed for sale either at williamsauction.com or on the Wasatch Front Regional Multiple listing service.

“We have forwarded all the information on the home to the owner,” said Jacob Erhard, Williams and Williams associate general counsel. U.S. Bank, the owner of the home, had the property tested after receiving information about the test done by Beacham.  “It tested positive for meth,” said Amy Frantti, spokesperson for U.S. Bank. “The property will be cleaned up. We will follow the state’s decontamination guidelines.”

There were no visual indicators of meth at the home, law enforcement records had no reports of drug activity there, and the home was not on any health department lists of contaminated property, according to Frantti.

Real estate agents are bound both legally and ethically to disclose information about what’s known in the real estate industry as “stigmatized properties,” including those with meth contamination, according to Chris Sloan, owner/broker of Group 1 Real Estate in Tooele and a former president of the Utah Association of Realtors.  “As an agent for the seller, you have to look out for their best interest, and when you have a reason to believe that a home may be contaminated with meth that should be disclosed,” said Sloan. “Disclosure protects all parties, if a seller is aware of contamination at the time of the sale and does not disclose it to the buyer the seller may be open to liability when the new owner discovers the contamination.”

Sloan cautioned that in the case of a repossessed home being sold by a bank the paperwork often includes a hold harmless statement including wording that the bank, having never lived in the home, can not verify the condition of the home at the time of sale.

Vicki Griffith, broker for Prudential Real Estate Tooele said she has been bitten by selling a state-certified decontaminated meth home and would not accept a listing for a home that she had reason to believe had been contaminated.

The Tooele County Health Department requires the owner of a meth-contaminated property to have the property decontaminated, but establishing contamination in the absence of a police report of meth activity requires obtaining permission from the property owner to access the property to take samples, according to Jeff Coombs, deputy director of the Tooele County Health Department.  “We had problems a few years ago with meth labs in the county,” said Coombs. “So we adopted regulations on meth lab cleanup procedures. Most of the meth labs have left the county and what we are now seeing is homes contaminated with residue from meth use.”

Beacham said she has learned some valuable lessons from this episode.  “I think it is very important for people to be aware of the possibility of meth contamination when buying a home,” said Beacham. “I wouldn't want to buy a contaminated home or put a family into a rental I own that is contaminated.”



 When you decide you are ready to buy your next property, please think of me.  I would love to help guide you through the process.  Visit www.marniebeacham.com for more information.

Thank you for reading!  See you next time.